Abstract: The paper suggests the following: how doesthe couple therapist-patient look like in theepitome frustration/ gratification and theconsequences that the closed model of themind has on the patient; is it an enactmentof an amendable error or is it an inevitableconsequence of the subconsciousinteraction between the two actants? Theanswer refers to the way in which apsychoanalytical healing attitude can bebuilt within the context of contemporarypsychoanalysis.